and I’ve got some things to say …

Rae, my sister, my best friend and the one I am most protective of asked me a few weeks ago if I would be an admin here on her blog. I’m mostly in the background, just minding my own business and my own blog The Feisty Witch.

Today, you all get me here with her FULL knowledge and blessing. It’s about to get real up in here, so either hang on and sit down or just see yourself out. Either way, you have been made aware, and I don’t care one flying FUCK if your feelings get hurt or not.

So ….

To those who have been claiming to be a witch and have used their supposed “powers” to send out hexes, SIT THE FUCK DOWN! Your limited knowledge of the Craft is showing in your ignorance. You do NOT hex someone and then inform them you have done so to control the way they behave towards you. If anyone wants to cut you completely out of their life because you are a toxic parasite, that is their absolute free choice and using a so called hex to keep them tethered to you is just pathetic. Yes, I’m talking to and about YOU G, you know exactly who you are.

You wheedled your way into the lives of your ex-husband and his wife because you wanted to be able to be close to “your Ronnie”. Yes, I have seen the messages where you admitted as much, so none of what I’m saying to you is hearsay. Gurl! He STOPPED being your anything when that divorce decree was signed 23 years ago, which was a year after you cheated on him in 2002. Ronnie and Rae have been married since 2004 and every manipulation to get close to him or try to break up their marriage has failed. HORRIBLY! Including you planting your psycho daughter in their home and trying to destroy it from the inside. Just give it up. He doesn’t want you, in any shape or form.

Next up is the one who is so completely obsessed with Rae, that she has the same haircut, the same hair color, wears the same style of glasses (before Rae got new glasses that you didn’t know about because she has you blocked on every platform) and the same EXACT words hanging on her wall that Rae uses for her blog tagline. Girl, get your own fucking life and quit obsessing over someone you will NEVER be, no matter how much you imitate her. Yes, M, I am talking about you. You are a leech, you suck dry everyone around you and then when you can’t get anymore from them, you try to make yourself the victim.

You have been in and out of Rae’s life for longer than I want to remember. She needed a friend and you could never be one without turning every conversation to what you needed and wanted. It took her SO damn long to finally see what you do to her health, both mental and physical that when she told me she was FINALLY completely finished trying with you, my first reaction was to shout “THANK THE GODS”!

My little Sis has a HUGE heart and she forgives too easily, thus allowing the people who continue to hurt her back into her life. But she has finally figured out that you all have been draining her not only emotionally, but physically too and she had shouted to all of you, FUCKING ENOUGH!!

I’m not blowing my own horn here, but you all need to understand what a real friend is because evidently no one ever taught you how to be someone that could be relied on. For the past two years, Rae’s life has been one trauma after another. Instead of listening to her and asking her what she needed, you pit of vipers made every conversation about yourself.

When Ronnie got hurt, I was the one she called, I was the one who talked her off the ledge enough so she could get herself to the hospital. I was the one who used my limited medical knowledge and asked my paramedic son for the things I didn’t know to help her understand what the doctors were telling her. I was the one who helped her understand what the rehab team needed Ronnie to do, and I was the one who held her hand long distance because she couldn’t trust anyone else.

When she lost her Mom, I was the first person she called after Ronnie, because she knew I was the ONE steadying, constant person in her life that she could completely rely on. We talked multiple times every single day and I never ONCE asked her for anything for myself. She needed someone strong, not emotional or out to see what they could get from this tragedy.

After Rosemary passed, Rae opened her heart back up to people who she knew were going to take advantage of her compassion. She even went so far as to create a group chat in Facebook Messenger so you all could share your memories of Rosemary with each other and mourn together. That lasted less than a nano second before you all were at each other’s throats and then you all DEMANDED Rae split her mother’s things between you all. Rae owed you absolutely nothing, she still owes you nothing. I was in this group, even though I didn’t know Rosemary at all. I was the silent observer, reading all the obnoxious comments everyone left there. I was also the one who held onto Rae after she had read all of the nasty vitriol you all posted.

NOT ONE of you know how to be a friend or deserve to have Rae in your life. And not any one of you deserve a place in Rae’s heart. None of you know the first thing about holding someone when their life has shattered without first taking from the broken vessel. Not one of you know how to be a friend, you are all the most selfish, opportunistic people I have ever had the displeasure of knowing about.

I’m closing with this: If ANY ONE of you come after Rae in any manner after reading this, you will answer to me. And yes, I will know. She tells me everything and even shares screenshots. So don’t think you can go around me by getting to her. Remember this FACT: I have FOUR of the most powerful Dark Battle Goddesses on my side and I NEVER announce my spell work. You won’t see me coming. You have been warned.