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An October Saturday filled with Western history, favorite shops, unexpected treasures, and the simple pleasure of making memories together.

There’s something about a road trip that makes an ordinary Saturday feel like the beginning of an adventure. Maybe it’s the anticipation of getting away from our usual routine, the possibility of discovering something unexpected, or simply knowing that Ronnie and I have an entire day ahead of us to enjoy together. Whatever the reason, I love those mornings when we’re heading somewhere interesting without having to worry about everything waiting for us back home.

On Saturday, October 17, 2026, our destination was Tombstone, Arizona, for Helldorado Days.

Now, Tombstone isn’t exactly new territory for us. We’ve visited before, and there are certain places I look forward to seeing every time we return. But that’s part of what I love about it. Some towns have a way of drawing you back, not because you’ve run out of new places to explore, but because you genuinely enjoy the atmosphere and the memories you’ve made there.

Tombstone is one of those places.

Between its fascinating history, wooden boardwalks, historic saloons, little shops, and horse-drawn stagecoaches, there’s something wonderfully entertaining about spending an afternoon in the town famously known as The Town Too Tough to Die.

And this particular visit turned into quite the adventure.

A Little History, a Little Nostalgia, and a Whole Lot of Tombstone

Tombstone has one of those histories that feels almost too dramatic to be real. Founded during Arizona’s silver-mining boom, the town became famous for its colorful characters, notorious conflicts, and the legendary events surrounding Wyatt Earp, Doc Holliday, and the Gunfight at the O.K. Corral.

A red stagecoach with yellow wheels and a black horse is parked in front of a historic building under a clear blue sky.

Of course, the real history of the American West was far more complicated than the romanticized version we’ve come to know through movies and television. Life could be difficult, dangerous, and unpredictable. But there’s still something fascinating about visiting a place where so many remarkable stories unfolded.

I love walking through historic towns and imagining the lives of the people who once called them home. What did their ordinary days look like? Where did they shop? What did they worry about? What made them laugh? It’s easy to remember the famous gunfighters and larger-than-life personalities, but I’m just as curious about the people who lived their everyday lives around them.

During Helldorado Days, Tombstone feels especially lively. Visitors fill the streets, Western clothing is everywhere, and the old buildings provide a wonderful backdrop for the festivities. The atmosphere has that playful combination of history and entertainment that makes the town so much fun to explore.

We enjoyed seeing the historic Bird Cage Theatre and the horse-drawn stagecoaches moving through town. There’s something about the sight of horses pulling a beautifully decorated coach past old Western storefronts that makes you stop and appreciate the scene.

For a moment, you can almost imagine another century.

Almost.

Because as much as I enjoy the history and atmosphere, I would definitely miss modern plumbing, electricity, and air conditioning. I love the romance of the Old West, but I don’t necessarily want to experience all its inconveniences!

A New Cowgirl Hat and a Little Western Attitude

Before we left home, I’d spent some time doing my hair and makeup and putting together my outfit for the day. I was feeling a little unsure about my hair because it looked much bigger than what I’m used to, but sometimes you have to get comfortable with trying something different.

Besides, we were going to Tombstone. If there’s ever an excuse for a little extra hair and a cowgirl hat, surely that’s it.

Speaking of hats, I had been wanting a replacement for one I absolutely loved before Winston decided to chew it. Apparently, my dog has a very different appreciation for Western fashion than I do.

I’d been looking for something that felt right rather than settling for a hat I didn’t really love. And during our visit, I finally found a new one.

It’s a beautiful light straw-colored cowgirl hat with a decorative band, and I couldn’t be happier with it. There’s something satisfying about finding exactly the kind of accessory you’ve been wanting, especially when you discover it during a day out.

I love little things like that. A new hat might not seem particularly significant, but when it’s something you’ve been searching for, it becomes part of the memory.

And honestly, a good cowgirl hat can give a woman a little attitude.

Not that I necessarily needed any more of that. 😂

Shady Lady’s Closet: My Tombstone Tradition

There are certain stores that I simply cannot visit without finding something I want, and Shady Lady’s Closet is one of them.

Every single time we go to Tombstone, I end up stopping there. And every single time, I buy something.

You would think I’d eventually learn to stop telling myself I’m only going in to browse, but apparently I’m committed to maintaining this particular tradition.

I enjoy the experience of shopping in smaller, independently owned stores. There’s something more personal about wandering through clothing and accessories in a shop that has its own character. You never know what you’re going to discover, and that’s part of the fun.

Shady Lady’s Closet has become one of my favorite Tombstone stops. It’s familiar enough that I look forward to visiting, but there’s always the possibility of finding something different.

And isn’t that what makes shopping during a day trip so enjoyable? You’re not necessarily looking for anything you desperately need. You’re simply exploring, discovering, and occasionally treating yourself to something that catches your eye.

Life is too short to make every purchase strictly practical.

At least, that’s what I’m telling myself.

Nellie’s Wicks and Bricks: The Little Luxuries

Another shop I enjoy visiting is Nellie’s Wicks and Bricks, with its soaps, lotions, and other lovely bath and body products.

I already have one of their lotions, and I appreciate stores that offer those little everyday luxuries. A beautiful fragrance, a lovely soap, or a lotion you genuinely enjoy can make something as ordinary as getting ready in the morning feel a little more special.

I’ve been thinking a lot about the idea of intentionally romanticizing everyday life, and this is exactly the sort of thing I mean. It doesn’t have to involve expensive purchases, elaborate plans, or pretending life is perfect.

Sometimes it’s as simple as using a product that smells wonderful, taking an extra moment for yourself, or surrounding yourself with little things that make your ordinary routines more enjoyable.

I love discovering those things while traveling because they become connected to memories of places I’ve visited.

And every time I use them, I get a little reminder of the adventure.

Fallen Angel Sweet Sin Parlor: A Delicious Little Temptation

Now, we need to discuss something very important.

Fudge.

Because we stopped at Fallen Angel Sweet Sin Parlor, and naturally, we came home with treats.

First of all, I love the name. It sounds like exactly the sort of place where you’re supposed to give in to temptation, and I certainly wasn’t about to argue with that.

We brought home a beautiful assortment of fudge, with different colors and layers that made the selection almost too pretty to eat. There were rich chocolate-colored pieces, creamy-looking varieties, caramel-colored treats, and even some gorgeous purple fudge.

I love the presentation of sweets like that. The colors, the variety, and the anticipation of trying something different make the experience feel almost nostalgic. It reminds me of being a kid and walking into a candy shop, completely fascinated by all the choices.

We also picked up a festive candy-corn-topped treat that was perfect for October.

I know candy corn is one of those things people seem to either love or absolutely despise, but I appreciate a cute seasonal treat. And honestly, when you’re wandering around Tombstone during October, something a little festive just adds to the fun.

These are the little indulgences I enjoy bringing home from a day trip. They’re not extravagant, but they’re part of the experience.

And sometimes a box of fudge is a perfectly reasonable souvenir.

Coffee at The Undertaker’s Cafe

One of our favorite stops in Tombstone is The Undertaker’s Cafe.

I have to laugh every time I think about that name. Where else can you announce that you’re going to the undertaker’s for coffee without causing immediate concern?

Only in Tombstone!

Ronnie and I love the coffee there, and stopping for a cup has become another enjoyable part of our visits. There’s something comforting about finding a place you genuinely like and returning to it whenever you’re in town.

I love coffee, but I also love the experience that comes with it. Taking a little time to enjoy a good cup, talking about what we’ve seen, and deciding where to wander next is part of what makes an outing relaxing.

Not every moment of an adventure has to be filled with excitement. Sometimes the quieter moments are just as memorable.

A good cup of coffee, good company, and nowhere else we absolutely have to be?

That sounds pretty wonderful to me.

Ronnie’s Finds: Smoke Signals and a Railroad-Spike Knife

Of course, I wasn’t the only one finding interesting things to bring home.

Ronnie made a stop at Smoke Signals for his cigars. He has his favorite places to browse just as I have mine, and I think that’s one of the things that makes our trips enjoyable. We each get to explore what interests us, and we both end up discovering something worth talking about.

But Ronnie’s most unusual purchase was a handmade knife forged from a railroad spike.

And this thing is seriously cool!

A decorative knife displayed on a black stand atop a wooden shelf, with a textured blade and a twisted handle.

The knife has a rugged, hand-worked appearance that immediately makes you think of an old-fashioned blacksmith’s workshop. What really stands out is the twisted metal handle, which has been shaped into a beautiful spiral.

I love craftsmanship like that. There’s something fascinating about taking a piece of metal that originally served one purpose and transforming it into something completely different.

A railroad spike isn’t particularly exciting when it’s doing its ordinary job. But place it in the hands of someone with the skills to heat, shape, and forge metal, and suddenly it becomes an interesting piece of functional craftsmanship.

The finished knife has personality. It looks rugged, distinctive, and perfectly suited to a town with Tombstone’s history.

And it’s exactly the sort of unusual souvenir Ronnie would appreciate.

According to Kate: A Signed Book and a Woman Who Wanted Her Story Told

One of the most meaningful things we brought home wasn’t clothing, candy, or a handmade souvenir.

It was a book.

Book cover of 'According to Kate' by Chris Enss, featuring vintage photographs of a woman and a young boy, with the subtitle 'The Legendary Life of Big Nose Kate, Love of Doc Holliday.'

We purchased According to Kate: The Legendary Life of Big Nose Kate, Love of Doc Holliday by Chris Enss, and our copy is signed by Chris Enss herself.

Now, anyone who knows me knows I love history, mythology, fascinating people, and stories that make me curious enough to start asking questions. And the story of Big Nose Kate is exactly the kind of historical rabbit hole I enjoy exploring.

Most people familiar with Tombstone know the names Wyatt Earp and Doc Holliday. Their lives have inspired countless books, movies, television shows, and conversations about the American West.

But I’ve always wondered about the women who lived alongside these famous men. What were their lives really like? What did they experience? How did they navigate a world that could be difficult, dangerous, and unforgiving?

Big Nose Kate, whose life was closely associated with Doc Holliday, was much more than a supporting character in someone else’s legend.

She was a woman with her own experiences, memories, and perspective.

And what makes Chris Enss’s book especially interesting is the history behind how Kate’s story was preserved.

Kate wanted her life story told. She saved personal writings and letters, and she shared recollections of her experiences in interviews. According to Enss’s account of researching the book, Kate hoped to arrange publication of her story and receive payment for it, but that arrangement never came together during her lifetime.

Years later, Chris Enss drew upon those surviving materials, along with historical documents and other records, to explore Kate’s life.

Enss has written extensively about women of the American West, helping bring attention to people whose stories were often overshadowed by the more famous men around them.

And that’s what I find so appealing about this book.

History is rarely as simple as the stories we grow up hearing. People remember events differently, legends become exaggerated, and certain voices receive far more attention than others. Kate’s own recollections are valuable, even when particular details need to be compared with other historical evidence.

I love the idea of learning about this period through the perspective of someone who actually experienced it.

And there’s something particularly fitting about discovering a book like this while visiting Tombstone, surrounded by the places and legends associated with the Old West.

Having a copy signed by Chris Enss makes it even more special.

I haven’t finished reading it yet, so I won’t pretend to offer a review. But I’m looking forward to spending time with Kate’s story and learning more about the woman behind the famous nickname.

Sometimes a book is more than something to read.

Sometimes it’s an invitation to discover a life you knew far too little about.

Sometimes the Best Adventures Are the Ones Close to Home

When I think about our Saturday in Tombstone, I realize how much I appreciate days like this.

We explored a town filled with history, enjoyed the atmosphere of Helldorado Days, visited favorite shops, discovered interesting treasures, and came home with things that will remind us of the experience.

I found a new cowgirl hat and visited places I love. Ronnie picked up cigars and a handmade knife unlike anything ordinary. We enjoyed coffee, brought home delicious treats, and discovered a signed book that has already sparked my curiosity about another fascinating woman from history.

And throughout it all, we were making memories together.

That’s something I’ve come to appreciate more and more. I don’t want to spend my life simply going through the motions, waiting for some perfect future moment when everything is easier, quieter, or more convenient.

I want to enjoy the life I’m living now.

I want to explore interesting places, discover new things, appreciate beautiful scenery, learn about history, laugh with Ronnie, and occasionally buy something I absolutely do not need but genuinely love.

Because those experiences add up.

They’re the photographs we look back on, the stories we tell, the little treasures displayed around our home, and the memories that make ordinary life feel a little more meaningful.

And this particular Saturday had one more extraordinary experience waiting for us.

You see, while we were enjoying Tombstone, I also got to meet someone I’ve admired for thirty-seven years.

Someone whose movies I’ve watched for decades.

Someone I’ve considered one of my longtime Hollywood crushes.

And someone who apparently has the power to make every intelligent thought disappear from my brain.

Yes, I’m talking about Billy freaking Zane.

But THAT adventure deserves an entire story of its own.

And believe me, it’s a good one.

Until the next adventure,

Rae ❤️

Vividly Rae — Living life, making memories, and finding a little magic in the everyday.


Let’s Talk!

Do you have a favorite little town you love returning to? Somewhere filled with history, interesting shops, or places that have become part of your own traditions?

And when you travel, what’s your favorite kind of souvenir? Something handmade, a book, a special treat, or maybe a little bit of everything?

I’d love to hear about the places and treasures that hold special memories for you!

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